I have reached the fantastic age of 30. When you reach this age some of your friends and family start to get hitched, and when you see your family (aunty and uncles) at these or other events, they just love asking THE question. When are you getting married?
Now for those of you who know me. I’m a little different. Due to my interests and mindset I have learnt a few things about marriage recently and I can tell you it’s not what it seems.
“A marriage is a state-licensed business, a three party limited general partnership between you, your spouse and the state.”
What does the term license mean? To give permission. There are certain things in life that you don’t need permission for. It’s called rights. Unalienable rights things that no one can take away from you, such as the right to live, the right to work, and yes, the right to marriage. Why would the government need to give you permission for something that is your right?
The bible says in Genesis 2:24: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
When you get a license for anything you’re getting permission to do something that would otherwise be illegal, unlawful a tort or a trespass.
So I ask the question.
When you get married, what illegal activity do you want to do that you need a license for?
Think about that for a minute.
According to Mary croft “Centuries ago, a man put a ring on a woman’s finger and declared, “With this ring, I thee wed.” Family members were the witnesses and that was it. There was no state-issued license to sign…frightful! Children can be taken from their parents because of the marriage license. Do not invite into your private contract a third party which happens to be public, cares not about the interests of the other two parties, and has every legal right to force them to acquiesce to its demands. Your marriage ceases to be your own; the third party will tell you if and when you can end the marriage; the third party will dictate that your children will:
- require a birth certificate and National Insurance no.
- require a gov’t directed (AMA/CMA) doctor to attend to his health
- be vaccinated by mandate
- attend the public Fool system
- be prescribed and drugged by Ritalin
- sign up with the armed forces, etc,
A shorthand definition of a license is “an authorization (by the licensor) to use the licensed material (by the licensee).” So the government allow you to use your wife. They might let you sleep with her, and eat her dinner and live with her but like all state licensed businesses you have to follow protocol. For example a divorce. OK, no one goes into a marriage thinking about divorce, but in the worst case scenario you and your wife can’t just split you have to go to a lawyer, who works for a state, to end the contract.
What about the children. If your children are born into a marriage and have a birth certificate. They become the property of the government. You lose full legal title to your baby, are resorted to a nanny or have equitable title where they can dictate and order you what to do with your child.
If you don’t believe me the why can social services confiscate babies from you. Why can the government take you to prison if your child isn’t in school.
Did you know there is no marriage ceremony in the bible? Really. Yes. I’m so dedicated to this I can honestly say I have read the book from cover to cover. Eve was already Adam’s wife. There was no marriage ceremony. It’s as simple as 1,2,3.
In particular, a license may be issued by authorities, to allow an activity that would otherwise be forbidden. It may require paying a fee and/or proving a capability. The requirement may also serve to keep the authorities informed on a type of activity, and to give them the opportunity to set conditions and limitations.
People tend to do what other people around them do. I for one cannot, absolutely positively refuse to participate. And I hope my future wife is smart and brave enough to overstand the con that is marriage and take responsibility for her own life.
I am cultural though, I love my Yourba African culture. What I will do is have a traiditional Yoruba wedding or engagement. You see in my culture once people are engaged they are already married. Even in Egypt which I’m so obsessed about a couple were married when they moved in together. There was no marriage ceremony in this great civilisation either. Like most things people have lost, forgotten and disregarded their culture.
Of course, you have free will you can get married if you want. Go for it, I hope you have a wonderful time with your wife or husband. Trust me I have nothing but love for those who have found their soulmate or found true love. I just wanted to share this with you as it has been a question, posed to me and I’m guessing you too more than a few times.
So when someone asks you, when are you getting married, you tell em……. a normal marriage is a state-licensed business………………………………